There are many things that happen in our lives that at the time make no sense at all. Try hard as we might we just can’t seem to understand what has happening and why. At the time we are going through any situation that we consider difficult it is hard to wrap our minds around the fact that everything happens, as it should. All we want is an answer to why we are going through it, and when we are going to feel better. We want to know if there is something that we did wrong, and is there something we can do to fix it?
The answer or answers lay before us. Everything happens for a reason, but it is those situations that we consider uncomfortable that happen for our growth. Without being taken out of our comfort zone most of us wouldn’t and/or couldn’t move forward in our lives. We would continue doing the same things, dealing with the same people, and in most cases continuing to complain that we want things to change in our lives.
You see the request for change was heard and since we wouldn’t take the subtle signals to move us along bigger things had to happen to get us moving. Remember we asked for it, but in most cases we weren’t moving towards what we said that we wanted.
So, as you sit and ask why is this happening to me? Remember that whatever is happening will in the long run be for your own good. You must do your best to not get angry or depressed, but to be productive and not let the situation get the best of you.
Find time to be still. Pay attention to the signals, and be grateful for the experiences. Know that when you come out on the other side you will know that it was all for your good, and there will be gold at the end of the rainbow.
Are you on your way to your pot of gold???
Love and blessings in divine order,
Song of the day: “This Too Shall Pass” - India.Arie
CD of the day: “Testimony, Vol. 1: Life & Relationship” – India Arie