The Realistic Happy Ending

What is a Realistic Happy Ending? It’s about being with the person that you can’t imagine your life without.

We have all heard the story of “Snow White and the Prince.” We all heard “that they lived happily ever after.” The thing is, no one has ever told us what “Happily Ever” after is. We all have our preconceived notions of what we think a relationship or marriage should be like. But, the thing is, you never really know what your relationship is going to be until you’re in it.

Many times people find fault with their own story because it’s not exactly like someone else’s or like what they have seen in the movies. When you try to compare your relationship to someone else’s, then you are being unrealistic.  No two relationships can ever be the same. All you can be is What is best for you, and spending you time trying to make your situation like someone else’s you are you are setting yourself up for disappointment.

Every relationship is unique and should be treated as such. There is no true right way or wrong way, just the way that you and your partner decide your relationship should be. It’s not about how someone tells you your life or relationship should be, but about the path you and your partner decide to walk down together. It’s more than possible to have a beautiful and loving relationship, but you have to start with knowing yourself, you doing your best to know your partner, and not trying to live you life the same way someone else has lived theirs. Instead, you have to create your own happy journey. 

Communication is the key, and with good communication you can write your own fairytale. 

Are you living your realistic happy ending?

Love and blessings in divine order, 


Song of the day: “Fairy Tales” - Anita Baker