Fear of Commitment

From time to time the subject of “Commitment Issues” comes up. I notice it’s something that everyone has gone through at one time or another, or they’ve dealt with someone who has them. I thought to myself how do we get past our commitment issues, and how can we help the person that we are involved with get past theirs?

Sometimes a person has a fear of commitment because deep down inside they know that they’re with the wrong person, but sometimes it’s the fear of the possibility of being hurt. We all have a fear of being left or being alone. None of us wants to be hurt. But, there is this thing, a feeling, an emotion, a connection that we all wish to experience. So, like most things we fear if we keep running they're not going to go away, and they won’t go away until we stand up and face them. 

Nothing is meant to last forever. None of us even know if we are going to be here tomorrow. So, why not enjoy the right now, and not worry so much about the tomorrow and the what if’s. Why not love in the now the way we ourselves want to be loved? Because, even if it’s only for a year, a month, a week, or a day a little bit of something wonderful is a whole lot better than a lifetime of nothing special at all. 

Are you living in fear of commitment?

Love and blessings in divine order, 


Song of the day: “Silly” - Stacye Branché