If you are over the age of twenty-one, you have experienced a break-up. With that breakup came pain, heartache, and the thought that you could not possibly love again. But, the thing is that one day you will have the privilege to love again. The trick is knowing when you are truly ready to love again.
It's very easy at the end of a relationship to want to seek out companionship. It’s natural to want someone to help you to ease your pain. The problem is that most people don't take the time to heal from their previous relationship. They are moving forward into a new relationship just not to be alone. Whether they have healed their broken heart or not.
It is an unfortunate part of life that many people suffering from a broken heart don't take the time to heal and mend their wounds, but worse when they do find a new relationship they usually choose the wrong person. They choose the person for the right now, instead of choosing the right person. It’s easy to pick the person for the right now, the person who helps to ease the loneliness even when everything in them tells them the person they have chosen to help ease their pain and make them feel better isn’t the right person for them. But, in the long run, usually, what they have done is welcomed more drama into their life.
After a breakup, it's important the take the time to heal. It's important to acknowledge where you are and how you got there. It’s always easy to find the person for the right now, and although it is more of a challenge, it is much more rewarding to wait for who is right for you.
Love and blessings in divine order,