There are many times that we find ourselves disillusioned about our relationship. We seem to be looking for the unrealistic “Happy Ending”. But, the truth is it’s not about the “Happy Ending”, but the “Happy Journey”. The “Happy Journey” comes with communication, understanding, patience, and forgiveness. The road requires constant work and being mindful that you are dealing with another individual who is also growing and changing, and hopefully the two of you will be able to grow and change together. That is not to say that the “Happy Journey” doesn’t exist because it does. It is just that everyone’s “Happy Journey” looks different.
Because happiness has a different meaning for everyone this is why knowing who you are and what you want out of a relationship from the start is so very important, but also having realistic expectations about being in a relationship. The best start for any relationship is to have similar interest and goals, but it’s important to remember that there are many variables and you have to figure out the things that really matter to you, and the things that don’t. Although your teachings play a big part in your beliefs it is really what is in your heart and the heart of your partner that determines how you are going to live your life and conduct your relationship.
In a perfect world our relationships would last forever, but unfortunately some relationships have a shorter life span than others. So, you have to live in the moment, appreciate where you are and do your best where you are, and don’t worry so much about the where things are going but how there going. Because the fact is it’s not about the ending, but the journey.
Is your journey a Happy one?
Love and blessings in divine order,
Son of the day: “Good Love” - Anita Baker
CD: “Giving You The Best That I Got”