When You Have Loved

It’s funny how people throw the words “I love you” around so casually, and can neglect or walk away from a relationship so easy. Although we should love one another being in love is a very different thing. Being in love is a very strong emotion. An emotion that you don’t get over, over night. If you have ever really loved someone you know this to be true. 

Relationships come and they go for different reasons. Sometime we can love someone so much, but know that our relationship with them isn’t healthy for one or both of us, or maybe the timing isn’t good, or the relationship has just run it’s course.  

If we have ever really been in love with anyone we know that we never stop loving him or her. At first we feel as though we can’t make it without them, but with each day the pain begins to fade, and we can begin to see the light at the end of the tunnel.  We realize that we are going to make it, and one day we will have the privilege to love again. 

In the meantime, we have to be grateful for those valuable experiences that came from being in that relationship because they are the lessons that help us to learn who we are and what we really want. It is that gratitude that helps to bring on the change to help us move forward. Being grateful for our past, and our present helps to make for an incredible future. 

Love and blessings in divine order, 


From the book “It’s All In How You Look at It (thought and questions about life) 

Song of the day:   “Love’s Alright”  - Chanté Moore

CD of  the day : “Exposed”    -   Chanté Moore