You Can't Force Love

Recently I have received several e-mails from people expressing that the one they love doesn’t love them or has fallen out of love with them. It makes me sad because love is such a beautiful experience to share, but what makes me sadder is that these people don’t realize how amazing they are and that the relationship they might have been in or desired might not at this point in their lives be the right relationship for them.

It’s sometimes hard for people to see that they are hanging onto something that isn’t working for them and might be stopping them from having the love and relationship that they desire and deserve. We can never control or force someone else’s emotions and we shouldn’t want to. Just because we think we know what is best for someone doesn’t mean that we do. We each have our own path to walk, and lessons to learn in life. Those lessons are learned in all area’s of our life including love. As we learn our lessons we each want and need different people in our life, and sometimes we grow away from people. Even people that we can deeply for.

When you love and know yourself you can see past the surface of the people that you come in contact with and the people already in your life. You will know what really works for you. If you truly know your wants and needs you will be able to see the reason someone has fallen out of love or doesn’t choose to be with you romantically and know that it is probably the best thing for both of you. 

If a relationship isn’t working you can’t keep trying to force someone to be in the relationship the way that you want him or her to be in it. Instead of making the relationship work you will probably end up resenting each other, and that resentment is a lot harder of a bridge to mend.

People come into your life for a reason and a season. Sometimes you have acquired the lesson needed, and the season has ended. Love you, know you and know that there is always going to be someone who wants to know and love you too. There will be someone who will fit perfectly with the person you are right now at this point in your life.

Are you stopping yourself from finding or allowing true love to find you? 

Love and blessings in divine order,