Accepting

It’s funny how un-accepting we can be.  We criticize, we judge, and just basically make no effort to understand when people are different from ourselves.   Why is it so hard for us to accept what it different?  Why can’t we allow others to be themselves? 

What makes the world interesting is our individuality. Be it Black, White, Straight, Gay, Married, Single, Thin, Thick, Christian, Jewish or Muslim.  Why can’t we allow others the express themselves the way they see fit? But, more importantly why can’t we appreciate and be loving towards those different? 

I ask this question, because I notice that during the course of the day there is no person who does not experience or witness some form of discrimination because they themselves or someone else is in someway different in appearance or culture.  Instead of blessing the spirit that stands before us, celebrating their individuality or maybe taking a moment to get a better understanding of the other person.  The person that is considered different is treated in a rude or disrespectful manner. 

We come from different times, cultures, backgrounds, and religions, but at the end of the day we have to remember we are one. There is only a difference if you want there to be. But that little bit of individuality shouldn’t get in the way of anyone being loving, kind, considerate, or understanding. Every life from every race, economic background, and religion is valuable and should be treated as such. 

Yes, we all run into those people that are harmful and those people come in all colors and religions, but it still does not call for judgment just distance.  You bless them and send them on their way. We will never really understand all that there is in the world, but my won’t it be fun trying. 

Were you accepting today?

Love and blessings in divine order, 

Stacye 

 Song of the day : “We Are One” - Frankie Beverly and Maze 

Through The Fire

We all go through a time in our life that we can't imagine how or if we are going to make it. And,  it seems that the doors that we thought will be open to us with help, support, and encouragement are closed. The pain, the stress, the heartbreak can take their tool, and the light that we have heard is at the end of the tunnel seems like an old wives tale. 

It’s in that lowest of times that you must hold onto your faith. You must belief that the experience that you are having is just that, an experience. It’s not who you are or how you will continue to be.  It is only a moment in time for you to learn and grow from. It is in that time that you must continue to find things in your life to be grateful for. It is that gratitude that will help you to  move through the fire.

Just when you think you can take no more your life or circumstances can turn around in a moment with one action, a conversation, or a phone call. So, when things seem impossible know that they aren't. There is a sliver lining on every cloud. It’s okay to have a sad or angry moment we're only human. ☺ But,  know whatever the low that you will make it through the fire. 

Love and blessings in divine order, 

Stacye

Song of the day:   "Through The Fire" - Chaka Khan

CD of The day:  "I Feel For You"  - Chaka Khan

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A New Chapter, A New Book

As we enter into new relationships it’s important to remember that we are not only starting a new chapter in our lives, but a new book.  We must open the book and write our story new. Although the story maybe familiar in some ways it’s one that has not yet been told. It’s our opportunity to write the story that we have been waiting to tell. 

We each have previous chapters with previous relationships, and stories that we know all too well. We have to remember that this new person is a new course to study, and there are many new lessons to learn.  We wouldn’t use Math in your History class,  so why would you think  you can take what you did in your last relationship into you new relationship? We cannot treat them or think that they will treat us like previous chapters, and books in their life. 

Like any course there are many lesson to be learned, and taught to and by us. This takes time, patience, understanding, and forgiveness.  But, most important it takes remembering that this relationship is a new chapter in our lives, but more so that this new relationship itself is a new book. 

Are you appreciating the new?

Love and blessings in divine order, 

Stacye

From the book “It’s All In How You Look at It (thought and questions about life) 

Song of the day: “We Can Be New” -  Amel Larrieux

CD of the day: “Bravebird” – Amel Larrieux

Pot of Gold

There are many things that happen in our lives that at the time make no sense at all. Try hard as we might we just can’t seem to understand what has happening and why. At the time we are going through any situation that we consider difficult it is hard to wrap our minds around the fact that everything happens, as it should. All we want is an answer to why we are going through it, and when we are going to feel better. We want to know if there is something that we did wrong, and is there something we can do to fix it?

The answer or answers lay before us. Everything happens for a reason, but it is those situations that we consider uncomfortable that happen for our growth.  Without being taken out of our comfort zone most of us wouldn’t and/or couldn’t move forward in our lives.  We would continue doing the same things, dealing with the same people, and in most cases continuing to complain that we want things to change in our lives. 

You see the request for change was heard and since we wouldn’t take the subtle signals to move us along bigger things had to happen to get us moving.  Remember we asked for it, but in most cases we weren’t moving towards what we said that we wanted. 

So, as you sit and ask why is this happening to me?  Remember that whatever is happening will in the long run be for your own good. You must do your best to not get angry or depressed, but to be productive and not let the situation get the best of you.  

Find time to be still.  Pay attention to the signals, and be grateful for the experiences. Know that when you come out on the other side you will know that it was all for your good, and there will be gold at the end of the rainbow.

Are you on your way to your pot of gold???

Love and blessings in divine order, 

Stacye

Song of the day: “This Too Shall Pass” - India.Arie

CD of the day: “Testimony, Vol. 1: Life & Relationship” – India Arie

The Blessings

There are many ways that we can look at any situation that doesn’t have a desirable outcome. Many of us go straight to the negative instead of stopping to find, and see the positives in the situation.  In the first moment of any situation that goes in a way different from what we desire we experience fear, disappointment, and/or anger which are completely normal human reactions, but within a moment we can make the same situation a blessing.  Some situations as painful as they may be are for our good because they are what we need to move us to make necessary changes. 

The first thing that we have to remember is that ever situation is a moment to learn and grow from.  If we can keep this in mind, then it becomes easier to not be upset over things or at least not be upset as long. So, yes we can have that moment of fear, disappointment and/or anger we just don’t need to sit in it, and hang onto it. 

Just as quickly as an undesirable moment happened so should our negative response be quick and over with.  If we hold onto that anger or disappointment, we will continue to manifest more things that bring on that negative feeling, but if we can master finding the blessings in an unpleasant situation we can have the experience and move forward in our joy. 

So, as we move through our days we have to remember nothing is really ever wrong we are simply having a lesson. 

Are you seeing the blessings and learning your lessons???

Love and blessings in divine order, 

Stacye

Song of the day:  “ God Is Truly Amazing” – Deniece Williams

Feelings Will Be Hurt

I always find it funny how we don't want to say something to someone because we don't want to hurt his or her feelings especially in relationships or the possibility of a relationship.  Sometimes the truth can hurt, but it really is in how you say what is true and in how the truth is received. 

 It's like when I hear someone say "I wanted to tell him or her that I wasn't interested so I just didn't call” or "I didn’t say something because I didn't want to be mean" or worse “I am avoiding him or her because I don’t want to do whatever”.  It would have been much kinder to just have been honest with them in the first place, than to use the lie of avoidance like avoidance is going to hurt their feeling less. At the end of the day yes the other person got the message by our action or lack there of, but it doesn’t hurt their feelings any less. 

I think the avoidance can actually be more hurtful because the other person involved doesn’t know what exactly has happened.  Let’s be honest when we avoid we think that we are making it on the other person , but really we are just trying to make things easier for ourselves. The truth is, we’re not really. When we avoid any situation lies usually get thrown in the mix. In turn we make things more complicated than they need to be. 

When we’re upfront and honest we avoid confusion. At least being upfront and honest there is a chance to move forward peacefully whatever forward may be without muddied watered. 

It's not always easy to tell the truth, and yes sometimes feeling get hurt. The thing is whether you are honest up front or you choose avoidance feeling will be hurt, but at least in telling the truth feeling won't be hurt as bad. 

Love and blessings in divine order, Stacye 

From the book “It’s All In How You Look at It (thought and questions about life) 

Song of the day:  "If Your Heart Isn't In It"  - Atlantic Star

CD of the day: “ Atlantic Star Classics Vol. 10 Atlantic Star

Time To Let Go

There comes a time when some relationships run their course and it’s time for both parties to go their separate ways. But, for some reason one of the parties can’t seem to move on. Now of course there are times when one or both parties doesn’t really cut the cord, they are still going back and forth with each other, and then they bring new people in there life telling them that their past relationship is over when it actually isn’t. This of course can lead to a mess. 

What I am referring to are the relationships that are truly over but one of the parties won’t let go.  Regardless over being told repeatedly that the relationship is over they continue to call their former partner, and in some cases they stalk them, and even harass the new person in their former partners life.   What is it that happens to a person that make them want to be with someone that no longer wants to be with them, and worst why would someone wants to be with someone who has made even more of a point that the relationship is over by moving onto a new person??

When a relationship is over as painful as it may be the easiest way to move forward is to give thanks for the good time, and know that there are more to come. They will just be with a different person.  There is an old saying  “I want to be where I am celebrated not tolerated”. No one should ever want to be where he or she is no longer appreciated.  We should only want to be where love, respect, and appreciation are in abundance.  Because when a relationship is over there is no amount of calling, stalking or harassing that is going to make a person love and respect you, let alone want to continue a relationship with you. 

Love and blessings in divine order, 

Stacye

Song of the day: “I've Found Someone Of My Own” -  Free Movement    

CD of the day:  golden Classics – Free movement

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Growing Up

 Isn't it funny how the things we couldn't wait to grow up to do we out grow?  

I was talking with a friend about some of the things we use to do like go to clubs, hang-out all night, drinking a bit too much and of course all the things we just weren't supposed to be doing. The things that we use to enjoy so much at the time.  The funny thing is now those things never seem to cross our minds anymore, and the responsibilities of our lives have shaped our time and interest. 

But, what really hit me was how long do can someone keep doing the same thing before it becomes the same old thing.  I am grateful to have ever growing and changing interest. There are only so many parties and clubs you can go to before they are all the same club and parties with the same people doing the same old thing.

In time I think we all realize that we desire things and events that means something to us, things that.... well let's be honest things that matter like family, good friends, good health and our quality of life.  Now the things I look forward to are so much more simple, like waking up every morning  :) 

Life is a continuous work in progress. We age, but it doesn’t mean that we are old. It just means that we have grown and our interest have changed. Not saying that the party is over it just moved to grown-up room.  

What matters to you?

Love and blessings in divine order

Stacye

From the book “It’s All In How You Look at It (thought and questions about life) 

Who's In Your Relationship ?

With each person that you are in a romantic relationship with you are not only in a relationship with that person, but the village that they hold counsel with about almost every issue in your relationship, just as you have a village that you hold counsel with. When we are in a relationship we forget this very important fact. Although you can have a wonderful relationship with the Village , the Village shouldn’t have an opinion about everything.

 What any person in a relationship should remember is that they have chosen to be in a relationship, to share their emotions, and have an experience with another person, and an intimate or romantic relationship is between the two people that are in it.

 It is unfortunate that in addition to people not always showing up in the relationship as themselves many people are guilty of bringing the village along. The village will give their opinion on everything from how long you should date, when you should have sex, to when you should get married, and have children. They will tell you things that come from their own negative and hurt feelings about relationships. But, the truth is none of that is the villages business. A romantic relationship is between two people, not two people and the village. 

We all get confused because there is no real handbook or road map on how to be in a relationship, and you may not have had any good example to learn from. You will make mistakes along the way, but you can only learn what is right for you and your partner by doing. So, when There is a problem you don’t run. As they say “when you fall off the horse you have to get back on”. What that means is you go back to your partner and work thought whatever your issues are together not with the village. Because no matter how good someone else’s intentions may be no one should ever have an opinion about your relationship. They can only project from their own experience, which may not be anything like yours. Which if you follow their advice nine time out of ten you will end up with a bigger mess in your relationship than you started out with. 

So, in your relationship remember that you are in it with that person not the village, and that the person you are with is not the same as anyone you have been with before. They are an individual who has chosen to be in a romantic relationship with you, and they deserve to be treated as such. So, tell the village that the drawbridge is up, and what goes on in The Castle stays in The Castle.

Who is in your relationship?

Love and blessings in divine order,

Stacye

Song of the day: “Ain't Nobody's Business If I Do” -     Billie Holiday

Check Your Baggage

We all have a past, our journey of experiences and events good and bad that have help to make up who we are, our back story and our personal baggage. The thing about baggage is that we all have it, but we all carry it around differently. Some of us choose to carry more of it than others, and some people travel light. It’s usually the more negative of our baggage that we choose to display proudly for the world to see. We allow the negative baggage to continuously affect our life personally and professionally, which leads to more baggage.

The thing is we have all had some unfortunate thing happen to us. None of us is the first nor will any of us  be the last person that something we consider unpleasant is going to happen to. And, it’s unfair for us to tote our baggage around continuously expecting everyone in our life to be a Bellmen. The worst thing about baggage is that we continuously collect it, and collect it. We sometimes have collected so much baggage that we don’t realize how it is affecting our relationships, and how it has begun taking up so much room that it is crowding people out of our life.

Without challenges there cannot be growth. Experiences are just that - experiences. No matter how unpleasant, uncomfortable or negative any experience may seem if you can open your heart and mind to finding the blessings and the lessons that the experience has brought to your life. You will be able to continue on your journey with a much lighter load and more room for the good experiences life has to offer.

Is your baggage in the way???

Love and blessings in divine order,

Stacye

Song of the day: “ Bag Lady” - Erykah Badu

CD: Mama’s Gun

Gratitude In Simplicity

It’s easy for us to complain about the life that we live, but is seems to be more of a challenge for people to find gratitude for the small things in their lives. We seem to take for granted the simple things in our lives like walking , breathing and the roof over our heads when there are so many that would be grateful just to have those things. 

It’s easy to want more, more and more, and we all seem to. Is more really going to make us happier, or add to our burden and frustration? I, like everyone grew up wanting and in some cases feeling as though I needed to have stuff, and sometimes I was even frustrated on the road to acquiring this stuff that I seemed to feel I had to have. Over time and through the challenges in my own life I was given the opportunity to see how truly blessed I was. 

Each day I say thank you as I rise from my bed. I am grateful to see another day, to have another opportunity to be the best I can be. I am grateful for the roof over my head, the food that nourishes my body, and grateful to have people in my life that love and care for me.  What I came to realize was that my life was rich because I had those thing,  not because I had all the stuff that the media has tried so hard to convince me that I needed. 

So as you walk through your life take a moment to appreciate what is real in your life . Make sure that your plate of life is full of all the true essentials that you need like love, family, and shelter. Remember that all that other stuff is just a side dish. 

What are the things that you are grateful for ?

Love and blessings in divine order, 

Stacye 

From the book “It’s All In How You Look at It (thought and questions about life) 

Accepting

It’s funny how un-accepting we can be.  We criticize, we judge, and just basically make no effort to understand when people are different from ourselves.   Why is it so hard for us to accept what it different?  Why can’t we allow others to be themselves? 

What makes the world interesting is individuality. Be it Black, White, Straight, Gay, Married, Single, Thin,Thick Christian, Jewish or Muslim.  Why can’t we allow others the express themselves the way they see fit? But, more importantly why can’t we appreciate and be loving towards those that are different? 

I ask this question, because I notice that during the course of the day there is no person who does not experience or witness some form of discrimination because they themselves or someone else is in someway different in appearance or culture.  Instead of blessing the spirit that stands before us, celebrating their individuality or maybe taking a moment to get a better understanding of the other person.  The person that is considered different is treated in a rude or in a disrespectful manner. 

We come from different times, cultures, backgrounds, and religions, but at the end of the day we have to remember we are one. There is only a difference if you want there to be. But that little bit of individuality shouldn’t get in the way of anyone being loving, kind, considerate, or understanding. Every life from every race, economic background, and religion is valuable and should be treated as such. 

Yes, we all run into those that are harmful and those people come in all colors and religions, but it still does not call for judgment just distance.  You bless them and send them on their way. We will never really understand all that there is in the world, but won’t it be fun trying. 

Were you accepting today?

Love and blessings in divine order, 

Stacye 

 Song of the day : “We Are One” - Frankie Beverly and Maze 

What Did You Give Today ?

As you walked through your day what did you give?

As you made your way on your usual path did you at least give a smile to those you came in contact with or, hold your head down, did you wear a frown, or did you turn your head and move about as though no one else exist? 

While at work did you give your all and more, or did you give just enough to get by? As you spoke to your family and friends were you loving, kind, considerate and giving or were you complaining, selfish, and having a Pity Party with the entire trimming. 

As you moved through your day. Were you the best that you could be?

There is a saying “ You get what you give”.  So, if you were not loving, kind, considerate, caring or pleasant why would you expect to get that from someone else? If you are sitting around complaining having your own non-stop Pity Party why would you expect anyone to want to be in your company.

We sometimes want so much from others, but give so little in return. Then we act as though we don’t understand why our lives are the way they are.  

It starts with you. To quote Michael Jackson “I’m starting with the man in the mirror”. 

So, I start my day being thankful and grateful for all of the blessings in my life, and continue my day giving thanks. I acknowledge everyone I come in contact with. I smile at everyone whether they smile back or not because I have that to give, and I don’t need their permission to be happy.    You see I give love, kindness, and consideration because those are the things that I want in return. 

What did you give today?????

Love and Blessings in divine order, 

Stacye

Song of the Day: “Man in The Mirror”  - Michael Jackson 

The Blessings

There are many ways that we can look at any situation that doesn’t have a desirable outcome. Many of us go straight to the negative instead of stopping to find, and see the positives in the situation.  In the first moment of any situation that goes in a way different from what we desire we experience fear, disappointment, and/or anger which are completely normal human reactions, but within a moment we can make the same situation a blessing.  

The first thing that we have to remember is that every situation is a moment to learn and grow from.  If we can keep this in mind then it becomes easier to not be upset over things that don’t go as we would like, or at least not be upset as long. So, yes we can have that moment of fear, disappointment and/or anger we just don’t need to sit in it, and hang onto it. 

Just as quickly as an undesirable moment can happen our negative response be quick and over with.  If we hold onto that anger or disappointment, we will continue to manifest more things that bring on that negative feeling, but if we can master finding the blessings in an unpleasant situation we can have the experience and move forward in our joy. 

So, as we move through our days we have to remember nothing is ever really wrong it is just different than we would have wanted. We are simply having a life lesson, but more importantly and opportunity to grow. 

Are you seeing the blessings and learning your lessons???

Love and blessings in divine order, 

Stacye

Song of the day:  “ God Is Truly Amazing” – Deniece Williams

An Encouraging Word

Just as there are words that can hurt us there are words that can pick us up.  In most cases these are the compliments that we receive from others, but every now and then we need to say or write compliments to ourselves.  

In a perfect world we all would want to feel fabulous every moment of every day, but every now and then we aren’t as happy as we would like to be. When you are not feeling your best it is important that you remind yourself how amazing you are, and  how grateful you are for the people and  things in your life. 

Although we are all taught to not praise ourselves there is nothing wrong with appreciating yourself, loving yourself, and knowing your value.  Because if you don’t love and appreciate yourself how you can expect anyone else to be able to love and appreciate you? 

So, take stock of all that you are, appreciate all that you are, and every now and then instead of waiting for someone else to tell or show you your worth remember it is okay to tell yourself because you are amazing. 

Do you remember to compliment yourself???

Have an amazing week, 

Love and blessings in divine order, 

Stacye

From the book “It’s All In How You Look at It (thought and questions about life) 

Song of the day: “Little Girl”   -  MaryMary

CD of the day: “Incredible”  - MaryMary

Love, Loss and Love Again

Some years ago I was in a relationship. I was very much in love.  The gentleman’s life was cut short by an act of nature. On his birthday I always take a moment to spend a bit of his birthday with him to let him know I love and I miss him. I still hold a place for him in my heart, and I always will. 

Many years have past since the day of his transition, but he is still very much a part of who I am. At the time I couldn’t imagine how I could go on without him.  I couldn’t imagine that I would.  Over time my wounded heart has healed. I have continued living, and I have loved again. 

I believe if you have ever really loved someone then you don’t stop loving them; period.  Because everyone that has been in your life whether you consider it a good or maybe not so good  relationship  has had a part in who you have become.   You not only learned what you want and what you don’t want , But you learn how to love deeper .

I know that some people wonder do I expect other men to measure up to him? The answer is No, not even for one minute because I know that we are all individuals. You can never love two people the same way. Each relationship brings it’s own Joys, challenges, and lessons. 

What I did learn from being in that relationship was what love feels like, and that I would never settle for a relationship that didn’t make me feel good, bring me joy, make me laugh, or feel appreciated. And, I would not be with someone that I could not make feel the same. 

What have you learned from your past loves???

Love and blessings in divine order, 

Stacye 

From the book “It’s All In How You Look at It (thought and questions about life) 

Song of the day: “Never Knew Love Like This” - Alexander O'Neal

CD of the day: “Hearsay” (1986) - Alexander O'Neal

Love The Hurt Away

Many times when a relationship is over we wonder and wait for when the pain will go away.  What makes the pain linger is our need to not feel the love we have for the other person. We fall victim to the societal myth that if we are not going to be together than we should no longer care about the other person. 

When you have loved, if you were truly in love the love doesn’t end just because the relationship did. If you weren’t in love you wouldn’t feel the pain of the loss The mistake we make when a relationship has ended is trying to forget as though the relationship never happen. The truth is the relationship did happen. It’s a part of not only your life, but all that you are in the present. 

When a relationship has ended to move forward you can’t run from what was. It is about acknowledging all that the relationship was, appreciating the good,  understanding the challenges, and being grateful for the experience.  Like any other experience you’ve had you gained something from it and your relationship is no different. 

Like the old saying “what you resist persists”. Stop fighting your feelings,  stop wanting to forget and start appreciating what was. Be grateful for the bumps and the bruises, the journey and the lessons. You have to be grateful because if nothing else you have grown. You have a been sense of what you want and need from a relationship , and more importantly what you don’t want . 

Healing from a breakup doesn't come from quickly jumping into another relationship or bashing your “Ex”. The healing comes from appreciating every bit of what you experienced, because every bit of what you experienced has made you stronger and wiser for the next relationship

Love and blessings in divine order, 

Stacye

Song of the day : “Kiss Away The Pain” - Patti LaBelle

Moving Past The Pain

When a relationship has ended it is very similar to a death, and in many ways it is. You have  loss something and someone that was important you. A person that you care about is no longer in your life. Like any loss you will continue on with your life , and each day the pain will seem to hurt less and less, but In the immediate you hurt

Through each of our lives we will experience the loss a loved one either physically, emotionally or both.  The hardest task for most is to figure out what to do next , and how to not hurt. Like anything else in life you have to find and give gratitude for the good things and the lessons that came from the relationship as well as the loss of the relationship. 

There are many reasons a relationship can end. No one has to be right or wrong, but when you can look back on the relationship honestly it will make all the difference in the world on how you move past the hurt.  Sometimes it is hard for us to see through the pain that a relationship wasn’t good for us , was holding us back from being our best self, or that it wasn’t the best thing for either party. When you can look at the relationship as it really was not the fantasy you painted in your imagination you’ll find the grieving period will be much shorter. Many times we are holding onto the fantasy of what we hoped would be, and we allow that fantasy to get in the way of our healing. 

There is no right or wrong amount of time to grieve a loss of any kind. The end of a relationship is in it’s own way a death and the mistake that most of us make is that we don’t allow ourselves time to grieve. At the end of anything that is important to you , you have to allow yourself time to grieve. But, unlike a death you cannot continue to only see the good in the relationship and not acknowledge the things that were unpleasant in the relationship. Continuing to do that will prolong the pain and never allow you to move forward. Just as you are allowing yourself time to grieve you have to allow yourself time to adjust to the changes in your life, where you are in the present and where you want to go in the future. 

Love and blessings in divine order, 

Stacye

Song of The day : “I Can’t Get Over You “ - Frankie Beverly &Maze 

www.StacyeBranche.com

Step By Step

So we realize there can be a wall or obstacle that stands before us. Now we have to figure out what it will take to remove it from our path.  It is easy to look at any situation and become overwhelmed with all that we assume it will take to deal with it. Impatience is an epidemic and unfortunately what it breeds is lack of focus, lack of drive, frustration, fear, and depression.  

Rome wasn’t built in a day and we shouldn’t think that we are going to make any significant changes in one try. But, with small efforts and a little bit of time what seemed like an unattainable goal or unmanageable situation can soon become something  we can accomplish or we can have a handle on. With a plan and patience there is no situation that cannot be conquered. 

So have a dream, have a goal, get a plan, and be patient.  As the saying goes “good things come to those that wait”, but more importantly good things come to those willing to work for what they want.

Do you have something that you need to tackle??

Love and blessings in divine order, 

Stacye 

From the book “It’s All In How You Look at It (thought and questions about life) 

Song of the day: “Incredible”    - MaryMary    

CD of the day:  Incredible (2002)  -  MaryMary

Open To Change

We are always growing and changing.  As we grow mentally there are many things that will start not to fit.  Things that use to seem so comfortable will start to feel out of place.  It is like the song "Everything must change, nothing stays the same". As we change there will be new people and interest in our lives that fit better, and over time some of them to may start not to fit. It is the circle of life, and nothing is forever. 

Many people seem to get very attached to people and things. We seem to hold onto so tightly not wanting to accept the fact that things are always changing.  Just as we ourselves are changing everyday so is all around us. 

As we and all around us change, we have to stay open to the fact that life is ever changing, and holding on too tightly to the past can get in the way of our future. We must stay open to all that awaits us. We have to embrace change as something new and different, and not something we should be afraid of. 

Are you open to change???

Love and blessings in divine order, 

Stacye 

From the book “It’s All In How You Look at It (thought and questions about life) 

www.StacyeBranche.com